Sunday, February 2, 2014

I Believe...


There are not many things better in this world then watching your husband exercise his priesthood authority. 
My testimony and belief in the Gospel of Jesus Christ is something that has never wavered,
 not because i have a complete understanding of it.
and not because i've never questioned it or the trials i've gone through
but because
I BELIEVE faith is a choice!



 We live in an imperfect world, surrounded by imperfect people who do imperfect things.
and what a relief that is considering that i too am imperfect.


but my Heavenly Father is NOT.
and my Savior Jesus Christ is NOT.
and if I BELIEVE those two things, then my questions become irrelevant 
because at the end of the day i trust my Heavenly Father has a plan for me,
he knows what he is doing, and if i ask he will NEVER lead me astray. 



and to say that we are surround by imperfection 
does not mean there is not PERFECTION all around us.


 the birth of a child is PERFECTION no matter the outcome. 
that spirit has come to earth for one purpose!
 to receive a body. 
that earthly body will NOT be perfect.
but that spirit has every opportunity to be perfected through our savior
Jesus Christ.  


I BELIEVE being a parent is PERFECTION
not because i am or ever will be a perfect parent
but because the opportunity to serve a child day in and day out
through the ups and downs, darkness and light, tears and smiles
is a path that if you walk down hand in hand with our Heavenly Father
leads to nothing other then eternal happiness. 



 I BELIEVE a mothers love is PERFECTION.
i know this because i've looked into 3 tiny sets of baby blues on the best and worst of days and never wavered in the LOVE and DEVOTION i feel for them. 


 I AM BLESSED
 i will never ever be able to repay my Heavenly Father for the blessing of being a mother to these 3 imperfect little boys.
but i will walk down that path with him hand in hand
wrapped in imperfection and do all i can to help my three littles gain their very own testimony
so someday they can be just as imperfect as their daddy.
because spending eternity with all my imperfect men
WILL BE PERFECT!!


Wednesday, January 8, 2014

2013 wrap up

2013 is over and i'm ready for a new year, with a fresh start and a whole new set of adventures!
don't get me wrong 2013 has been good to our family of 5
but new can be good, new can be fun, and new WILL BE pregnancy free!
here are a few fantastic things i forgot to document 
but are still worthy to be on record...
in no particular order. 

cousins are sorta like the cherry on top of the most perfect chocolate drizzled sunday. 
they are friends that you can count on being around forever. 
even when they move across the country.
they are family and they will always come home.
and when they do...
 you go torture yourself trying to get the perfect picture  
to hang on the wall so you have a little piece of them when they have to leave again. 





Our first date was on February 7th 1996
he took me to a monster truck show and bought be a snow cone. 
i mean talk about knowing how to win a gal over!
fast forward to july 16th 2013- our 12 year anniversary! 
we had 2 kids with one on the way.  
we've laughed, traveled, cried, fought, made up, grew up, and a thousand other things.
i'm so lucky to be married to someone i want to be with even when i want to be alone. 
he is the best husband, dad and friend.
i'm one lucky lady!
and mr. echols is one lucky guy to be married to someone who "lets" him go on backpacking trips
with no cell service, for 5 days, with a bunch a dudes. 
while she is pregnant, with 2 crazy little men at home!!!

but since he is pretty fantastic and deserves a break from the daily grind.
i guess going on a "man trip" every year to someplace beautiful to become one with nature
is a good thing!!
especially when he catches more fish with his lightning mcqueen fishing pole then 
everyone else with their fancy flies and poles and lures and what not. 
i had my doubts that he was even able to catch a fish!
his history as my guide.
bets were made....debts collected....i've learned my lesson... he can catch a fish!


and you know how fishing is the perfect segue to a first hair cut....
well obviously it leads us to this handsome little dude
 and the lovely locks that were snipped and the tears that were shed
all to end with a sucker, balloon and a smile. 
man the price of beauty is high!
or $13.99 + tip, but whatever!


one might ask..
how did you forget to post halloween costume pictures? 
well i was 8.75 months pregnant, 
my feet and hips where in competition to see who could inflict the most pain
and to be honest these two are lucky they even had a costume to go trick or treating in!!

the weather even cooperated and was warm enough for a costume that was not october proof.
and man did they work their costumes like the little models that they are.
 the cutest Neverland pirates i've ever seen. 

grandma and grandpa had their annual halloween party and as always it was fantastic. 
why you ask is there no pictures of arron and myself in some clever costume sure to win a prize and be talked about around water coolers all year? 
.... did you not read the part about being 8.75 months pregnant? 

as mentioned above,
winter started out unseasonably warm and these "too cool for school"  dudes 
soaked up every last warm ray of sunshine that 2013 had to offer. 

i mean literally they were outside everyday 
with no coats or boots or snow hats (unless used as an accessory to be highly fashionable)
it was heaven sent for their mama as i tried to check off all the things on my never ending "nesting" list before little man #3 arrived.

and while waiting for above mentioned #3,
#1 went from toddler to little boy right before my eyes. 
its mind-blowing the transformation that happens when you blink. 
because thats how fast it happened.
panic sets in if you think about it too long,
about how you waited and waited for a baby and then you got one and that baby isn't a baby anymore.
and it literally was only yesterday and tomorrow is catapulting at you at an unprecedented speed.
and you are trying to capture every single moment 
(except the meltdown, i wanna pull my hair out moments, because those are not your finest hour)
all while trying to live in the moment!
its exhausting and exhilarating at the same time. 



this is Gabers on his first and last day of nursery
now he is going to be a sunbeam and i'm going to have my very own kid to watch in primary programs. which is something i've always wanted, to have my own littler person wave at me from on the stage while not singing the words to the songs they've been working on all year. 
but i didn't want it to come so fast....? 
i'd hold him back in nursery if he wasn't already a foot taller then everyone in there! 

so as you can see a lot happened while we were waiting for Pax man to show up 
and oh boy was he worth the wait. 
we are all so in love with him and his cheeks and his freakishly long fingers and toes.
he's been to his first Utah football game and secured a place in his big brothers hearts as well as mom and dads. 
 i found out i was pregnant when mac was 6 months old.. to say i was in shock would be the understatement of the year (2013 to be exact..haha)
but now it makes perfect sense, i don't know what life would look like without him.


so the best gift of 2013 definitely goes to the arrival of mr. pax 
and becoming a family of five!
whose to say we won't be a family of 6 someday, that is still in the 
"To be determined" category.

but it will NOT be in 2014!
i'm taking a year off!



CHEERS 2013


  

Saturday, December 28, 2013

CHRISTmas 2013

right this very second as i document our christmas 2013 
miracle of enormous proportions is going down at the echols house!....
it is the middle of the day and ALL 3 BOYS are SLEEPING!! 
now let me get on with it before the circus commences...
christmas tradition states:
 first: you may open one present christmas eve. 
it will be pajamas, 
they may or may not fit no matter what the tag says. 
you will look adorable....regaurdless. 

second: your elf on the shelf, lou lou, will be watching your every move to bring a nightly report as to which list your name should reside!
however she herself is not held to the same standards 
she peer pressured our neighbors elf leroy into making snow angels before heading off to report....
 then she strong armed buzz, woody and jessie into setting up a zip line right in the middle of our living room. 
I'm not sure this elf has the moral compass to judge the naughtiness or niceness of any little boys or girls.

{at our house the boys can give lou lou a kiss and hug good-bye because santa is coming to pick her up so she doesn't need magic to fly home}

and despite what i'm sure quite a few of lou lou's nightly reports were...
SANTA still came! 

and may i just say...
these 3 littles hit the jack pot.


and just like all of us after a day filled with so much excitement and wonder, food and family, toys and treats. 
its time to fat dog it on your new love sac with your fuzzy blanket and milk of some variety.



and then when there is nothing else left to do.. just be awesome!
cuz they've mastered that. 


i love christmas
i love spending time with family, i love shopping, and wrapping, and eating  
and eating while wrapping.
 i love the spirit of the season and the time set aside to celebrate the birth of our Savior!
there are so many things that i love about this time of year.
trying to get the perfect Christmas pajama picture is not one of them. 
luckily... we nailed it!


* MERRY CHRISTMAS *